why am i the only person to have neg rep...

[zuberdust]

not fair....:33::19::frown:

 

[scattea]

Your just lucky!!

 

[zuberdust]

Your just lucky!!

my rep on Rd is
Reputation: 657504248
Rep Power: 65750456
hehehe......... pos rep me ppl!
and give me lots of thnx!...... thank me as well!!!:biggrin::biggrin::biggrin:

 

[bobthenob]

my rep on Rd is
Reputation: 657504248
Rep Power: 65750456
hehehe......... pos rep me ppl!
and give me lots of thnx!...... thank me as well!!!:biggrin::biggrin::biggrin:

Let me give you some advice here.Never think of this as a game with other members to find ways of getting the rep points.This will show to others that your more concerned about what you can gain,then what you can give to other members.
lt doesn't matter how many greenies you have.The real prize is to gain a good reputation from other members with an attitude of being there for others when needed.

Recognize the reasons why you have been given a red and then work from there how to improve your personality towards others to gain positive reputation.

obnoxious comments will go against you.l read one of your post where you were so rude towards a fellow member in posting a negative comment which was uncalled for.

So it is good to promote small expressions of kindness to others,without having the negative thoughts of trying to get one over a person with rude comments.

Think of it this way.Since actions of expression comes from the heart then it is right to cultivate a love for others that will eventually gain a positive glow of respect from others.

 

[parrot]

B.N.M rings a bell.Bob's got five thanks on this already.

 

[peter the postie]

And there's one for you. I'm feeling generous :biggrin:

 

[McDHibs]

not fair....:33::19::frown:

Sorry Zuberdust

But you just have to look at your last post on the racial nicknames thread as the reason you have Neg Rep. You are the TLF equivalent of Marmite we either love you or hate you.

Please take more time to think about your posts so far you are posting an average of 14 times a day, its great that you want to be so active but try the content over quantity route and your reputation will increase.

Mike

 

[parrot]

I actually find the rep points and thanks quite patronising and also clique forming,part of the buddy buddy system.I have seen many thanks and I had to read the thread over and over to find out why the thanks had been given.I have also seen thanks given in a condisending manner meant to demean the recipient.

 

[carolk]

Zuberdust, you do seem like a nice enough kid but, you made extremely rude and uncalled for remarks to Luckycats, OK she expressed a certain disdain but you went right over the top. Then, you were rude to Maria (Guz1). Thats why I havent joined in any of your threads. I didn't give you any bad rep points but, I think an apology would go a long way to enhancing your reputation if you want a good one - and you seem to be saying you do!!

 

[ceemac]

I actually find the rep points and thanks quite patronising and also clique forming,part of the buddy buddy system.I have seen many thanks and I had to read the thread over and over to find out why the thanks had been given.I have also seen thanks given in a condisending manner meant to demean the recipient.

Have you and pete not just done something similar to what you're saying? heheh

C

 

[lippy]

Does it really matter how many you get.

 

[lesleykay]

am I the only one who doesnt know what these are, how you get them or take them???

 

[parrot]

Have you and pete not just done something similar to what you're saying? heheh

C

Well spotted 10 out of 10 for observation,that is exactly the point,they can be and are given for the most frivilous and pretentious reasons,if it makes you happy I can withdraw Petes,don't think he'll care much anyway,it was reciprecal like a lot are.

 

[bobthenob]

am I the only one who doesnt know what these are, how you get them or take them???

Greetings Lesley,
Here is a link to the way the reputation works.Please bare in mind this thread is 4 years old and just recently it has now been updated with the member to have a choice to either click on the scales you see down the bottom left of your post.or just click on the thanks button to reward the member of their post.Also so many points to be gained,before you are rewarded with a visible rep point.
Also put your curser under the points and you will notice a displayed title.This title one has is connected to how many points you have accumalated.
You'll get the hang of it once you know how the system works.

Here is the link
http://www.turkishliving.com/forums...697-forum-reputation-rep-whats-all-about.html

 

[PASH]

not fair....:33::19::frown:

Hi, Cannot say i really mind what people think of me but the rules i use in life are always be polite and if you have nothing worthy of saying - keep quiet. This is a great forum and informative interesting chat is great, disparaging remarks are somewhat frowned on. As i feel sorry for you, i shall give you a boost in your reputation in the hope that it cheers you up!!

 

[Martyn]

Yes Pash says it all there. Be respectful, you can still disagree as well often we do.

 

[Harem]

No we don't.

 

[Martyn]

No we don't.

I respectfully disagree, we do.

Another point, use the emoticons they express how you feel, words alone can be misinterpreted.

 

[jimskem]

Thanks for the tip Bob, I was with Lesleykay regarding the subject.
As for Zuber, for the first time since i have been a member, his name was the first to go on my ignore list.
For this reason i was not aware he had said something out of order to another member.
I looked at this thread started by him in case he had decided to offer his apologies.

 

[ceemac]

Well spotted 10 out of 10 for observation,that is exactly the point,they can be and are given for the most frivilous and pretentious reasons,if it makes you happy I can withdraw Petes,don't think he'll care much anyway,it was reciprecal like a lot are.

Good grief no, don't be withdrawing any thanks because of my flippant remark.

I just think you're an old dyed in the wool socialist Parrot - how do you fancy a seat in the House of Lords eh? the expenses are great.....:hehe::hehe:

C